It's always sad, I think, to say give me, give me, give me, but to say “We'll help you try to find it, we'll be the enabler”, as has been stated before.
C'est toujours triste de dire «donnez, donnez, donnez», mais dire «Nous allons vous aider à trouver, nous serons le facilitateur», comme quelqu'un l'a dit plus tôt.